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NateK
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Posted: August-21-2012 at 9:16am |
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We just went through a similar issue .. and I think your question is valid but no one is going to be a perfect match for every child. You should let your child continue to be in the class until you see a actual problem. At that point I would bring it to the teachers attention and then if there is no solution go to the principal. Sometimes the conflicts Ive had with my "worst" teachers have actually turned out to make me a better person.
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TeacherUhl
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Posted: August-21-2012 at 12:33pm |
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Having worked for many school districts, I have never heard of a school that will switch students to other teachers. Once they do it for one parent, everyone wants to pick their favorite teachers. One thing that I find very effective is sitting in my daughter's class. You have every right to visit the class with advanced notice. That way you can watch the teacher is action (although trying extra to impress you). After a few visits from you, that teacher will feel very uncomfortable with your visits and try his/her best to improve on the offences that concern you.
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Susan J. Uhl
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KeyserThomas
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Posted: August-24-2012 at 5:40pm |
atmouloua wrote:
Ok so I should just sit back and let my kid have a teacher that plays games on her cell phone in class, tells students "i don't care." ignores bullying and screams at her class?? She'd get fired for doing that at McDonald's. ANDi think $40K a year for working only 10 months and having every government holiday off is a decent gig especially for a parent with small kids. I'm not a helicopter parent, and if my kid was in 5th grade or higher I'd see this as an opportunity to get used to dealing with crappy bosses and rude strangers. |
I'd really like to know...but I will say you are correct regarding the behavior described.
BTW I think depending on the parent feedback it can be very helpful. I'm smart enough to know the difference between personality issues and if the teacher isn't doing their job.
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MommyDavila
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Posted: August-24-2012 at 7:30pm |
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The OP asked what the protocol is. You would go to the principal and make the request. If that is denied, you can bring your request to the district office. You could speak at the next board meeting if you wanted to. I think what the people responding are trying to say is that the administration would judge the request specific to your child's experience with the teacher. Having had none yet, you may not get very far. And I hope it all turns out well.
My oldest had a pretty terrible teacher when he was in 1st grade. OK, well...let me qualify that. I am sure she was a great teacher to most of the kids in her class. My boy...who is every bit a boy....was not one of them. If I had known then what I know now, I would have advocated for my boy so much more than I did at the time. He was my first. I didn't know how much to push it. And I was not confident. But one thing I do know now is that my mother's intuition has never been wrong. If you see behavior from the teacher you don't like, as uncomfortable as it is, address it with the teacher right away. If you get nowhere or if it continues, go up the flagpole. Sometimes escalation works to get the teacher to just maybe be more aware of her offensive behavior, if nothing else.
Good luck and don't pay attention to the haters who want to right away call you a helicopter parent. That was whack!
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Posted: August-25-2012 at 4:40pm |
Mamma Bear has some good experiences and great advice. I couldn't agree with her more. Following the "flag pole", aka. teacher, principal, superintendent, board, is not only the most professional way of handling issues, it just makes common sense. Good for you in being so proactive in your child's education.
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Susan J. Uhl
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atmouloua
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Posted: August-31-2012 at 9:23am |
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Update: Met with Principal, got a pep talk and was assured my concerns would be anonymously addressed with the teacher. The classes are all full to the max and our only option would be to move my kid to a combo class with younger children. SO, for now we wait until something opens up in another class.
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Posted: August-31-2012 at 9:47pm |
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Hope you are feeling better by now! At least they will address these concerns with that teacher, I hope this will solve the problem without the need to change classes. Good luck!
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